Heart Break Motivation

After hearing so many cases of Heart Break recently I have decided to write about it, though, I had decided to leave writing blogs.

See the above image, it seems that two hearts are broken. Well NO! This is where most of us make fault, I remembered a quotation given by a popular motivational speaker...

Love is always one sided...~Sandeep Maheshwari.

In my opinion this quotation is so perfect.

The above image is for both-Boys and Girls..If you are a girl you will see this from your side and if you are a boy then same. There is only one person is sad in the image, depending on your gender.

We have to understand the difference between love and attachment and yes How can we forget?..CRUSH!

Let's talk about crush, ...THERE IS NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT CRUSH, IT'S JUST A TEMPORARY FEELING WHICH WILL FADE AWAY JUST IN 21 DAYS IF YOU DON'T SEE THEM!

Now let's take a eye on attachment, Attachment is when you can't live without another person, it is not possible to getting a single text ignored. This feeling has potential to destroy you from inside.

Let me tell you what happen when you are getting apart from the one you are strongly attached,

Based on conversations I did with a lot of people, They were not able to eat something, there was no hunger, life becomes lifeless which means there will be sadness every everywhere, you will not be able to concentrate on your work and it is harmful for both SCHOOL AND OFFICE GOING CHICKS AND DUDES.

One of my friend said, Once he ate a few sleeping pills, was slept for exactly 24 hours and when he woke he realized that FAMILY LITERALLY CARES, he took his motorbike and went somewhere, after bashing his vehicle he returned home and started crying.

After wasting his 2 precious years he realized his fault and forgot the one he was attached to.

If you are ready for all these things then you can dare to attach with someone otherwise CHADDI ME REHH!

THE CONCLUSION IS I DON'T RECOMMEND TO ATTACH WITH SOME UNTIL YOU CAN POST IMAGE ON FACEBOOK FOR THEM WITH CAPTION "WORLD'S BEST HUBBY/WIFE".

This was all about attachment. Now let me give a lecture on love.

Well can't say much about it because I've never deeply experienced. But I'll try to explain.

The feeling of love is when you realize,

"FOR SOME YOU ARE SO IMPORTANT, SO IMPORTANT THAT WHEN YOU ARE NO MORE IN THIS WORLD, THERE WILL BE SOMETHING MISSING. YOUR PRESENCE AND ABSENCE MATTERS.

THEIR EYES GET GLITTERED WHEN THERE IS A SHADOW OF YOU."

~ OSHO

This is a little definition of love given by a GREAT THINKER.

Okay..Now the problem of us is, WE TRY TO ACHIEVE AN IDEAL RELATIONSHIP.

THIS IS A NEW WORD, "IDEAL RELATIONSHIP".

WHAT DOES THIS MEANS?

IDEAL RELATIONSHIP IS WHEN YOU WANT TO GET A RELATIONSHIP IN BOLLYWOOD STYLE,

BOLLYWOOD IS FULL OF CRAP!

FROM BEGINNING THEY ARE FILLING OUR MIND WITH THE JUNK OF LOVE.

THERE IS NOTHING LIKE RELATIONSHIPS IN BOLLYWOOD MOVIES. WHEN THERE IS ONLY BRIGHTNESS NO DARK SIDE- FIGHTS, HEART BREAK, SACRIFICE, MOOD OFFs, HEADACHE, THEN IT IS CALLED AN IDEAL RELATIONSHIP. AND IN REALITY THERE IS NO IDEAL RELATIONSHIP.

"BUT WHO CARES ABOUT ALL THESE THINGS?" ~ BOLLYWOOD AND KARAN JOHAR 

MOST OF THE IMMATURE TEENS ARE DOING EVERY NONSENSE SHIT TO ATTAIN THAT IDEAL RELATIONSHIP. AND WHEN THEY ARE INTRODUCED TO DARK SIDE, THEY CAN NOT HANDEL THEMSELVES, SOMETIMES THEY KILL THEMSELVES OR DEPRESSION KILL THEM.

I HAVE LITERALLY SAW A LOT OF CASES OF DEPRESSION, SOME ARE ADMIT IN HOSPITALS, SOME LOCKED THEMSELVES IN ROOM, SOME CAN'T SLEEP, SOME CAN'T CRY, SOME CAN'T STOP CRYING, ALL OF THEM HAVE DARK CIRCLES UNDER THEIR EYEBALL SOCKETS. SOME LEFT THEIR STUDIES, MANY OF THEM ASSUMES THEMSELVES AS A FAILURE, AND THE MOST HARMFUL THING IS MANY OF THEM START DOING BOOZE AND DRUGS.

INDIA'S YOUTH IS GLUED IN ALL THESE CRAP!

CAN YOU AGREE THAT THIS IS WHAT LOVE RESULTS?

AND ANOTHER THING, ALL THESE THINGS ARE HAPPENING MORE WITH GUYS AND LESS WITH CHICKS. THE REASON IS DUDES ARE INNOCENT BY HEART, THEY ATTACH EASILY FROM OTHERS. ONE REASON BEHIND THIS IS MOST OF THEM ARE ALONE INSIDE, EVEN AFTER SOME ASSHOLES HAVE SISTERS AND BROTHERS.

DUDES DUDES, YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO STAY HAPPY WITH YOUR SISTER OR BROTHER, EVEN IF YOU ARE SINGLE YOU CAN STAY HAPPY WITH YOUR BUDDIES. THERE SHOULD BE NO REASON FOR FEELING ALONE.

YOU MAY SOMETIMES FEEL DOWN AS BUDDIES CAN'T BE WITH YOU ALL THE TIME BUT IN THAT SITUATION THE BEST SOLUTION IS YOU HAVE TO ENJOY YOUR OWN COMPANY. YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN ANY SITUATION, YOU ARE WITH YOURSELF AND DOZENS OF SPIRITS IN YOUR ROOM RIGHT NOW...

FOR GUYS: WHY DO YOU NEED GIRLFRIEND?

ANY REASON OTHER THAN BODY NEEDS?

AND ANOTHER THING WHICH MOST OF US DO IS DREAMING ALL THE TIME. FUCK! STOP THIS RIGHT NOW YOU STUPID! THIS IS WHERE WE ALL MAKE FAULT, STOP DREAMING ABOUT SOMEONE, IT WILL DESTROY YOU IF YOUR DREAMS WILL NOT BECOME TRUE. AND ONE MORE THING..REMEMBER THIS:

"MILLION DOLLARS, I DON'T GIVE A DAMN. KUDIYAAN SHUDIYAAN, I DON'T GIVE A DAMN. BADEE HAI SOCH MERE BADE HAIN PLANS!"

~ HONEY SINGH 

REMEMBER WE ALL LIKE TO STAY CONNECTED WITH PAIN, BUT ALSO REMEMBER IT COSTS YOUR MENTAL PEACE.

"YOU CAME ALONE, YOU WILL GO ALONE.

YOU HAVE TO DECIDE WHAT IS GOOD FOR YOUR AND BAD FOR YOU, ALL ALONE."

~ GRANTH PANDYA